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Why a Blog?

Hey! My name is Kaitlyn and I am currently in my second semester at BYU-Idaho. I am actually a communications major but am really excited about my Family Relations class this semester. That is what this blog will be about. The family is a very controversial topic in the world and something that is really important to me. I am hoping that as I go throughout this course and share what I am learning I can inform more people about the family. Every week I will by posting about something that I found helpful from my class discussions, and my own research.

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